Let’s talk about something that doesn’t get enough love when it comes to wedding day planning. Getting ready in the same place on your wedding day!!!
This isn’t one of those “you absolutely must do this or your wedding will fall apart” kind of tips. It’s more like a “this will make your life so much easier and your photos so much better” kind of suggestion. And I have seen it work well for so many couples.
If you are planning your big day and want to simplify your morning, this can help in so many ways. It can make your day feel calmer, more connected, and save you money. I’m not talking about getting ready together (though I think that’s pretty freakin cool too).
So what exactly do I mean and how can it make your day even better?
I am talking about the two of you getting ready in the same hotel, Airbnb, venue suite, or even apartment complex. Just somewhere close enough that we do not need to drive between locations. You can still get ready separately and keep that sweet first look moment or aisle reaction. We will totally plan around that. But you are in the same general area, maybe even just a floor or hallway apart.
This small change can completely change the way your wedding morning feels. So let’s break down why!
Let’s start with the visuals. One of my favorite things about getting ready in the same place on your wedding day is how much easier it makes capturing all your wedding day details.
Think about it. Your rings, vow books, perfumes or colognes, accessories, invitations, and meaningful heirlooms they all tell your and your partners story. When you are in two different places, it can be harder to style and photograph these pieces together!
When everything is in the same space, I can gather your details at the start of the day. Even if you are in separate rooms, I can take my time styling them beautifully. Then, I will give you a full set of flat lay images that feel connected. Trust me, this alone makes a huge difference in how your final gallery looks.
This one can be a big deal if you are planning a more intimate wedding or working with a specific photography budget. If you are getting ready in the same place on your wedding day, I can move between rooms. This way, I can capture moments from both sides of the wedding party. No need to hire a second shooter just for the morning coverage.
This means you will get those special moments of getting ready. You will also see emotional gift exchanges and detail shots from both partners. You won’t need extra coverage. It is a smart way to stretch your photography investment further without sacrificing memories.
Logistics are a big part of what makes wedding days feel either chaotic or peaceful. And you deserve a peaceful start to your day.
If you are getting ready in the same location, that means we do not have to factor in drive time between locations. Your wedding party can all hang out in the same general area. You don’t have to worry about someone forgetting shoes or rings at the other place. I have seen many couples relax more on their wedding morning. They felt calm because everything and everyone was in one place.
And when things run smoothly in the morning, that energy carries into the ceremony, the portraits, the reception, everything. You will feel more present, more grounded, and more like yourself and lets be honest, the last thing you need is even more nerves on your day.
The more photos we take early in the day, the more time you’ll have later. You can eat, drink, hug your friends, and enjoy your party.
When your whole crew is getting ready in one location, we can easily schedule time for:
All of this means less running around later in the day. And if you are not doing a first look, no problem. I will still be able to move seamlessly between both rooms to grab shots, coordinate timing, and make sure nothing is missed.
One thing that gets overlooked is how many vendors charge extra for travel, extra staff, materials, ect. Getting ready in the same place on your wedding day helps cut those costs in more than one way:
Those savings add up fast. And come on, Wouldn’t you rather spend that money on your honeymoon, dinner, or something else you and your partner can do, or celebrate?
This is the part that is harder to put into a checklist, but it matters so much.
When everyone is close by, there is a sense of calm and connection. It is easier for your photographer and planner to communicate with both of you. It is easier to pop in and say hi to your mom or your best friend. It is easier to be in the moment instead of feeling spread out or rushed.
Even if you don’t see each other until the ceremony, being in the same place helps. It gives a quiet sense of being on the same team. And that feeling? It really does set the tone.
Honestly? If it is an option for you, yes.
It simplifies your timeline, saves you money, helps your photos feel more cohesive, and sets the tone for a relaxed and connected wedding day.
There is no rule that says you have to do this. Your wedding is your day, and it should feel exactly how you want it to! But if you are still figuring out logistics and want to make your morning as smooth and photo friendly as possible, this tip is a game changer.
And if you are not sure how to make it work, or how to still keep things private before the ceremony, no need to panic. That is where I come in. I am here to help you find the balance between intentional planning and laid back vibes.
Just reach out and we will build a plan that fits your vision and your timeline!
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